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For the introvert, conversation can be a very limited forum for self expression. When a song moves you, a writer gets you or a theory enlightens you, you and its creator are connecting in a realm beyond sight or speech.

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Laurie Helgoe
Age: 64
Born: 1960
Born: December 10
Psychologist
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Laurie Anne Helgoe
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