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Amor animi arbitrio sumitu, non ponitur we choose to love we do not choose to cease loving.

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Lauren Groff
Age: 46
Born: 1978
Born: July 23
Novelist
Writer
Cooperstown
New York
Cease
Loving
Choose
Love
Amor

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Even the presence of my kids cannot, during those writing hours, disturb me. Unless there's a bone sticking out of their arm, I'm not interested.
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