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I find it much easier to counsel than to be counseled, to reach out to a friend in my small group who is feeling insercure than to reveal my own inseurity. The truth is we don't much like being dependent. We don't enjoy admitting how desperately we long for someone's kindness and involvement. It's so humbling.

Larry Crabb

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Larry Crabb
Age: 77 †
Born: 1944
Born: January 1
Died: 2021
Died: February 28
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Non-Fiction Writer
Psychologist
Psychotherapist
University Teacher
Evanston
Illinois
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