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In Korea, a woman must first obey her father, then her husband when she becomes an ajuma, and finally obey her son as a halmoni. Any woman who violates or lives outside of these roles is called a ch'angyŏ (prostitute).

Kim Hyesoon

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Kim Hyesoon
Age: 69
Born: 1955
Born: January 1
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