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One of my moments of coming to writing, of needing to write to attempt to create myself, to attempt to absolve and understand my past passivity, came when a girl I loved very much, who I had been estranged from for some time, killed herself.

Kate Zambreno

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Kate Zambreno
Age: 47
Born: 1977
Born: January 1
Novelist
Writer
Mount Prospect
Illinois
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Absolve
Time
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Estranged
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Passivity
Girl
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Killed
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