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Because it corresponds to a vital need, love is overvalued in our culture. It becomes a phantom - like success - carrying with it the illusion that it is a solution for all problems.

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Karen Horney
Age: 67 †
Born: 1885
Born: September 16
Died: 1952
Died: December 4
Psychiatrist
Psychoanalyst
Problem
Vital
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Solution
Needs
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Love
Illusion
Overvalued
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Phantom
Success
Phantoms
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