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I don't care how intelligent or attractive someone is, if he zaps your energy, he isn't for you. True chemistry is more than intellectual compatibility. Beyond surfaces, you must be intuitively at ease.

Judith Orloff

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Judith Orloff
Age: 73
Born: 1951
Born: June 25
Motivational Speaker
Psychiatrist
Writer
Philadelphia
Pennsylvania
Beyond
Surfaces
Energy
Intuitively
True
Chemistry
Someone
Attractive
Care
Ease
Must
Surface
Intelligent
Intellectual
Compatibility

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