Quote

My father deprived me of any truths about himself. He died without ever letting me know who he truly was. I only knew his facades, basically. And it breaks my heart that he never trusted me enough to tell me the truth.

Joshua Mohr

Change background

T
T
T

Change font

TAGS & TOPICS

Joshua Mohr
Age: 48
Born: 1976
Born: July 8
Author
Writer
Father
Trusted
Tell
Truths
Truth
Letting
Ever
Basically
Without
Died
Facades
Enough
Truly
Facade
Heart
Knew
Deprived
Never
Break
Breaks

More quotes by Joshua Mohr

Image
Shamefulness is always a huge part of my characterizations. I like protagonists that reveal, either through honesty in their various thought processes or via their actions, perhaps telling us things they're not so keen on disclosing through their interactions with the outside world. Probably both during the duration of a novel.
Joshua Mohr
Image
My musical sensibilities were formed around punk rock, that quintessential dilution of an art that's both ugly and lovely at the same time.
Joshua Mohr
Image
I'm a semi-failed writer, but I'm a capital-F Failed musician.
Joshua Mohr
Image
For the book to succeed, it has to have equal parts ugliness and beauty, counterpoints adding up to emotional complexity. To me, there's a dignity in letting your art be emotionally complex.
Joshua Mohr
Image
If a character is honest with a reader, then (hopefully) that will engage the reader's empathy centers she'll meet that openness with acceptance, and they'll forge a nourishing and meaningful bond as the book continues.
Joshua Mohr
Image
It's a beautiful aspect of narrative construction, hunting for the right images and metaphors to render our character's hearts/minds/souls as though they're ecosystems, full-fledged settings for a reader to inhabit like a place.
Joshua Mohr
Image
I always wished to be a better planner. It seems more elegant, while my trial and error process is more akin to someone scratching an awful case of poison oak.
Joshua Mohr
Image
We have today and hopefully tomorrow to be the best version of ourselves.
Joshua Mohr
Image
I'm not a gamer. But I am very aware of the escapism of drugs. In my mind those kind of do the same thing. They dull us to the aches and pains of our status quo.
Joshua Mohr
Image
I want to be the kind of adult that keeps learning. I want to always be open to new experiences.
Joshua Mohr
Image
I used to consider myself to be a cineophile, and then I had a daughter. Ha! Now I barely see any movies.
Joshua Mohr
Image
It was important to buy into the fact that the nine hundred pages an end-reader never sees are just as valuable as the ones that are bound and placed on the shelf.
Joshua Mohr
Image
I never wanted/expected to write a memoir, but this life thing, it has a way of sideswiping our worlds, scaring us so thoroughly that our past lenses of contextualizing events don't work - they cease to matter.
Joshua Mohr
Image
The question why, at least in my life, often leads to despair. Why did this happen to me? Why didn't someone who claimed to love me treat me with respect, compassion, kindness? Etc. These questions never have answers. They are an ocean, and you'll never swim to the other side. Eventually, you'll tire and die.
Joshua Mohr
Image
Memoirs need confusion. It's the thing every human has in common. We are magnificently confused.
Joshua Mohr
Image
The more we're doing to ensure we're following our joy and passion, that's when we really start to put the gas in our lives.
Joshua Mohr
Image
Memoir is a unique opportunity to revisit yourself. I don't mean by memory. I mean in the revision process. You don't just write a chapter and that's it. You must constantly return to it. You must dote on it. And even if it's saying something ugly about who you are, you have to find the poetry in it. You have to find the poetry in yourself.
Joshua Mohr
Image
No matter what we've done, no matter the disappointments and sullied blunders, today is the opportunity to do right by ourselves.
Joshua Mohr
Image
I struggle with staying clean every day, and what really keeps me from doing something stupid is my daughter.
Joshua Mohr
Image
The point of reading is to inhabit a consciousness that doesn't belong to the reader, immersing yourself in a life that's wholly realized. And a huge facet of our psychic and existential make-ups is the things we're not proud of, things we didn't ask to experience, the scenarios we flubbed.
Joshua Mohr