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I wasn't mean I wasn't evil. I was nice. And let me tell you, a hesitant man is the last thing in the world a woman needs. She needs a lover and a warrior, not a Really Nice Guy.

John Eldredge

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John Eldredge
Age: 64
Born: 1960
Born: June 6
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In the end, it doesn’t matter how well we have performed or what we have accomplished—a life without heart is not worth living.
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God endowed you with a glory when he created you, a glory so deep and mythic that all creation pales in comparison.
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