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Everything is up for grabs, everything is relative. Except nothing is if you are serious about it because the moment you become serious about answering a question you have a stake in it. Relatively goes out of the window, in one sense because you're putting your a** out there - you are depending on the answer, you need the answer.

John Edgar Wideman

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John Edgar Wideman
Age: 83
Born: 1941
Born: June 14
Novelist
Writer
Washington
District of Columbia
Moments
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Become
Except
Grabs
Everything
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Answering
Nothing
Question
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Serious
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I believe - what did Faulkner say? The past is not even past.
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Hell, I'm going to play pro basketball. I'm going to maybe be famous. I'm going to write books.
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