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Every person in therapy has a love disorder.

John Dufresne

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John Dufresne
Age: 76
Born: 1948
Born: January 30
Author
Novelist
Screenwriter
Worcester
Massachusetts
Disorder
Therapy
Persons
Person
Every
Love

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I had begun what I thought might be a career in social work. I was married and deeply involved in the anti-war movement. I thought I'd go about saving the world one person at a time. I worked with kids, teenagers mostly, in neighborhood centers, on the streets, and eventually in a drop-in center.
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Love is always a surprise and you never get it right.
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The landscape of childhood shapes us as it shapes the characters in our stories. You never forget the sacred places of your childhood.
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Fiction begins with the senses, and the senses go to work in a place.
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I revise like crazy. I start revising before the pen hits the paper.
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We all sleep with the corpses of our dead lovers.
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A lack of narrative structure, as you know, will cause anxiety.
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Actually, my first literary heroes were the Romantic poets, so I began to get serious by writing poems. I have notebooks full of them that I cherish but am afraid to look at.
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You can't possibly conduct a proper affair without a lot of deliberating, scheming, speculating, and conniving. It's a delicate balance where the excitement must equal the guilt and sex must be as bright as the future you gamble.
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Reading honest literature makes you love the world. Knowledge and understanding are love. Reading educates our feelings and enhances our sympathy. When you read for understanding, you are fundamentally changed. You are a different person at the end of the story or the novel than you were when it began.
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I sat around the kitchen every Sunday afternoon listening to my mother and aunts talk about the people in the neighborhood. Gossip - I loved it. And that turns out to be the writer's job: to attend to the gossip and spread it as far as you can.
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Place is character. And all writing is regional.
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With each draft, the work gets better, and usually that means tighter. It means getting the precise word, not the approximate word.
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If you think about it, fiction is nothing more than gossip about the people you've made up.
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A pure love is a selfless love, but can desire ever be selfless?
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The purpose of the first draft is not to get it right, but to get it written.
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Every act of loving affirms the goodness of the lover just because he is capable of loving and being loved.
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I learned to love stories by listening to them.
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