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You can't possibly conduct a proper affair without a lot of deliberating, scheming, speculating, and conniving. It's a delicate balance where the excitement must equal the guilt and sex must be as bright as the future you gamble.

John Dufresne

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John Dufresne
Age: 76
Born: 1948
Born: January 30
Author
Novelist
Screenwriter
Worcester
Massachusetts
Equal
Excitement
Future
Bright
Deliberating
Without
Proper
Conniving
Must
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Scheming
Affair
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Guilt
Gamble
Sex
Conduct
Balance
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