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Healthy shame is an emotion that teaches us about our limits. Like all emotions, shame moves us to get our basic needs met.
John Bradshaw
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John Bradshaw
Died: 1567
Died: January 1
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Hell, in my opinion, is never finding your true self and never living your own life or knowing who you are.
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Evil is a source of moral intelligence in the sense that we need to learn from our shadow, from our dark side, in order to be good.
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