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Grief, when it comes, is nothing like we expect it to be.
Joan Didion
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Joan Didion
Age: 89
Born: 1934
Born: December 5
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We all survive more than we think we can.
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we are imperfect mortal beings, aware of that mortality even as we push it away, failed by our very complication, so wired that when we mourn our losses we also mourn, for better or for worse, ourselves. as we were. as we are no longer. as we will one day not be at all.
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New York was no mere city. It was instead an infinitely romantic notion, the mysterious nexus of all love and money and power, the shining and perishable dream itself. To think of 'living' there was to reduce the miraculous to the mundane one does not 'live' at Xanadu.
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I lead a very conventional life.
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I'm totally in control of this tiny, tiny world right there at the typewriter.
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I found earthquakes, even when I was in them, deeply satisfying, abruptly revealed evidence of the scheme in action. That the schemes could destroy the works of man might be a personal regret but remained, in the larger picture I had come to recognize, a matter of abiding indifference. No eye was on the sparrow. No eye was watching me.
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Short stories demand a certain awareness of one's own intentions, a certain narrowing of the focus.
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I've come to a much more controlled idea about death and loss, but I don't think it's possible to come to that much more controlled idea until you've gone through the crazy part . . . I don't mean that I'm controlled. I mean that I gave up the idea that I had control. That's the new control.
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Writing nonfiction is more like sculpture, a matter of shaping the research into the finished thing.
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