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And in some of the houses, people were getting old and sick and were dying, leaving others to grieve. It was happening all the time, unnoticed, and it was the thing that really mattered. What really mattered in life, what gave it weight, was death.

Jeffrey Eugenides

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Jeffrey Eugenides
Age: 64
Born: 1960
Born: March 8
Novelist
University Teacher
Writer
Detroit
Michigan
Jeffrey Kent Eugenides
People
Getting
Houses
Death
Happenings
House
Happening
Others
Leaving
Thing
Weight
Grieve
Really
Sick
Mattered
Time
Gave
Unnoticed
Life
Dying
Grieving

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