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A community is only a community when the majority of its members are making the transition from 'the community for myself' to 'myself for the community'.

Jean Vanier

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Jean Vanier
Age: 90 †
Born: 1928
Born: September 10
Died: 2019
Died: May 7
Naval Officer
Philosopher
Theologian
University Teacher
Writer
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Majority
Members
Community
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