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When we believe we are losing control, we grab on tight. When our greatest fear comes upon us, we clench our fist and teeth, close our eyes and hold on. We must learn how to let go. When the time comes for growth and change, we must have the courage and faith to let go. Whatever leaves my life makes room for something better.

Iyanla Vanzant

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Iyanla Vanzant
Age: 71
Born: 1953
Born: September 13
Motivational Speaker
Spiritual Teacher
Writer
Brooklyn
New York
Rhonda Eva Harris
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Eyes
Close
Clench
Change
Whatever
Courage
Fist
Better
Upon
Room
Grab
Must
Eye
Hold
Fists
Something
Faith
Rooms
Tight
Believe
Learn
Growth
Teeth
Time
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Control
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Life
Comes
Greatest
Losing

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