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Sooner or later, we must all accept the fact that in a relationship, the only person you are dealing with is yourself.
Iyanla Vanzant
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Iyanla Vanzant
Age: 71
Born: 1953
Born: September 13
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Brooklyn
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Rhonda Eva Harris
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