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He had learned long ago that, in general, the easier it was for anxious patients to reach him, the less likely they were to call. (107)

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Irvin D. Yalom
Age: 93
Born: 1931
Born: June 13
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Existential Therapist
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Washington
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Irvin David Yalom
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If one is to love oneself one must behave in ways that one can admire.
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