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If your reaction to your partner's fear-or any other form of distress- is disdain or irritation, you do not want oneness or even friendship with your partner at that moment.

Hugh Prather

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Hugh Prather
Age: 72 †
Born: 1938
Born: January 23
Died: 2010
Died: November 15
Writer
Hugh Edmondson Prather III
Moments
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Partner
Even
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Reactions
Partners
Friendship
Irritation
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Disdain
Fear
Oneness

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When someone disagrees with me, I do not have to immediately start revising what I just said. People don't want me to always agree with them. They can sense this is phony. They can sense I am trying to control them: I am agreeing with them to make them like me. They feel I don't want to exist to like you. I DON'T exist to like you.
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perfectionism is a slow death. if everything were to turn out just like i would want it to, just like i would plan for it to, then i would never experience anything new my life would be an endless repetition of stale successes. when i make a mistake i experience something unexpected.... when i have listened to my mistakes i have grown.
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Don't fight a fact, deal with it.
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There is a time to let things happen and a time to make things happen.
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There is no place love is not.
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We become what we look at most.
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I talk because I feel, and I talk to you because I want you to know how I feel.
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What an absurd amount of energy I have been wasting all my life trying to find out how things 'really are', when all the time they weren't.
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Next time I will ... From now on I will ... - What makes me think I am wiser today than I will be tomorrow?
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All my life, I have made it complicated, but it is so simple. I love when I love. And when I love, I am myself.
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The fatal mistake is waiting for life's circumstances to be right before we begin. Simply begin with your heart, look deeply into it and trust what you feel. Practice knowing and you will know.
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My trouble is I analyze life instead of live it.
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When I have listened to my mistakes, I have grown.
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Forgive and be happy. That is the ancient secret?the only wisdom ever to be attained.
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I'd rather be happy than right.
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It's not that today is the first day of the rest of my life, but that now is all there is of my life.
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I can't be found in myself I discover myself in others. That much is clear. And I suspect that I also love and care for myself in others.
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Happiness is gentleness, peace, concentration, simplicity, forgiveness, humor, fearlessness, trust, and now.
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Just when I think I have learned the way to live, life changes and I am left the same. The more things change the more I am the same. I am what I started with, and when it is all over I will be all that is left of me.
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