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Anger is frustration at the fact that we are not God, and do not have control over reality.

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Henry Cloud
Age: 68
Born: 1956
Born: March 17
Preacher
Psychologist
Vicksburg
Mississippi
Frustration
Anger
Control
Fact
Facts
Reality

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