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Whatever attitudes we habitually use toward ourselves, we will use on others, and whatever attitudes we habitually use toward others, we will use on ourselves.

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Henepola Gunaratana
Age: 97
Born: 1927
Born: December 7
Bhikkhu
Attitudes
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Attitude
Whatever
Use
Others
Habitually

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