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I don't think women are, by definition, toxic to one another. I think women are simultaneously competitive toward and idolatrous of each other. I thrive on that challenge and that desire.

Heidi Julavits

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Heidi Julavits
Age: 56
Born: 1968
Born: April 20
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Journalist
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Portland
Maine
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Toxic
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Women
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Toward
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I used to have a really sharp memory. And its loss has proven destabilizing from an identity perspective.
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It's fascinating to imagine two successful writers in one house. But when you think about it, it isn't very unusual. In fact, so many writers have writer spouses.
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As a writer, you want to go somewhere else sometimes. You want to vary the terrain that you're exploring.
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When you are expending much energy on someone else's demise, it's like you weaken your psychic immune system.
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I wish somebody knew whether or not I'm Jewish.
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We want to believe we couldn't be replaced, and that the people we love are irreplaceable.
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I needed to understand this random bad bit of luck as part of a bigger design. Otherwise I was suffering meaninglessly. This made the suffering a lot worse.
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I wouldn't be myself if I weren't always trying to be someone else. I only have so much time on this earth and I want to be as many people as possible.
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Whenever I hang out with my female friends, I feel like context is never needed. They can just say two words about something, it's like hearing the first two notes of a song and you can always identify the song. They can just say a word and I know exactly what they're talking about.
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