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If you agree with an outside person's interpretation of you, that's a happy bit of affirmation. It means you're communicating externally what you believe to be true internally. If you disagree, it helps clarify how you understand yourself. And maybe makes you productively question how to improve your communication skills.

Heidi Julavits

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Heidi Julavits
Age: 56
Born: 1968
Born: April 20
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