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I needed to understand this random bad bit of luck as part of a bigger design. Otherwise I was suffering meaninglessly. This made the suffering a lot worse.

Heidi Julavits

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Heidi Julavits
Age: 56
Born: 1968
Born: April 20
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Journalist
Novelist
Portland
Maine
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Luck
Made
Worse
Bigger
Design
Needed
Bits
Suffering
Random
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Otherwise

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