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It's not right for one friend to do all the giving and the other to do all the taking: that's not real friendship.

Haruki Murakami

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Haruki Murakami
Age: 75
Born: 1949
Born: January 12
Athletics Competitor
Essayist
Linguist
Novelist
Prosaist
Science Fiction Writer
Translator
University Teacher
Writer
Kyōto
Murakami Haruki
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Friendship
Taking
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Right
Giving

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