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...better to have loved and lost bullshit. Don't show me paradise and then burn it down.

Harlan Coben

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Harlan Coben
Age: 62
Born: 1962
Born: January 4
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Newark
New Jersey
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Paradise
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Lost
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A trial is two narratives competing for your attention.
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I don't necessarily love the sports per se, I love the stories behind them. Also in a kind of perverse way I like to study what it does to us, why we care so much. It's caring about something that's utterly meaningless.
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Frankly I'm fairly boring or fairly busy. Between writing and family, I have little time for anything else.
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Its funny how you can let yourself forget for seconds, how even in the heat of the horrible, you can have moments when you fool yourself into thinking it might all be okay
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I always think the insecurity is going to go away, but it's always there. Only bad writers think they're good.
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The actual writing time is a lot shorter than the thinking time.
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You don't worry about happiness and fulfilment when you're starving.
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There are few times that I feel more at peace, more in tune, more Zen, if you will, than when I force myself to unplug.
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I am very lucky that I get to tell stories for a living. I love being able to grab people's attention, to keep them turning the pages, to make them stay awake all night. I want to stir the pulse, yes, but also to stir the heart. I hope 'The Woods' does that.
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In the end, we know what makes us happy. We also know what makes us unhappy. That's the irony. We know and yet we still mess it up. That's part of the human condition, no, and why we need to work on it.
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I'm not very happy idle. There's always this voice in my head that says, 'I should be writing.
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That’s the problem with falling in love. It makes you start talking like a bad country song
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You bring your own weather to the picnic.
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I love to make even villains people you can relate to. When you find out who did it, I think you almost like the person, which is not easy to do.
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Writing a novel in general is like trying to reach a mountain top you'll never quite reach - so you try again and maybe get a little closer.
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I like to see the difference between good and evil as kind of like the foul line at a baseball game. It's very thin, it's made of something very flimsy like lime, and if you cross it, it really starts to blur where fair becomes foul and foul becomes fair.
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In short, the satisfaction of creating, not necessarily the process, always lifts my heart.
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Sure, on a larger scale, it was healthy to have people out there you cared about more than yourself. She knew that. But then there was the abject fear you would lose it. They say possessions own you. Not so. Loved ones own you. You are forever held hostage once you care so much.
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Writers always say, 'I always knew I wanted to be a writer when I was a three-month-old foetus a pen formed in my hand and I began to scratch my first story on the inside of my mother's womb.' I started later, in my early twenties.
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...desperation can toy with you and if you give desperation any wiggle room, it will find alternative answers
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