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I credit my parents for many things that had never seemed remarkable when I was growing up, and one of those things is how nonthreatened they were by my constant search for backup parents - other mothers and fathers would have bristled at this, but they never did. So I was always looking for other parental stand-ins, and I always found them.

Hanya Yanagihara

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Hanya Yanagihara
Age: 50
Born: 1974
Born: September 20
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