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Falling in love was simple one had only to yield. Digesting another person, however, and sustaining love, was bloody work, and not a soft job.

Hanif Kureishi

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Hanif Kureishi
Age: 69
Born: 1954
Born: December 5
Author
Film Director
Novelist
Playwright
Screenwriter
Writer
London
England
Fall
Yield
Another
Soft
Persons
Falling
Person
Commitment
Work
However
Love
Relationship
Digesting
Simple
Sustaining
Jobs
Bloody

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