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The toughness I was learning was not a martyred doggedness, a dumb heroism, but the art of accommodation. I thought: to be tough is to be fragile to be tender is to be truly fierce.
Gretel Ehrlich
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Gretel Ehrlich
Age: 78
Born: 1946
Born: January 21
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