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There are no do overs and some things just aren't going to happen. It is a little sad but you just have to embrace what is

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Gretchen Rubin
Age: 59
Born: 1965
Born: December 14
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Blogger
Motivational Speaker
Kansas City
Missouri
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If you want to feel safe, healthy, and hopeful, try to act as if you did feel that way. Fake it 'till you feel it. maybe start with health -- try to walk energetically, speak energetically, do physical things.
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Feelings follow actions. If I'm feeling low, I deliberately act cheery, and I find myself actually feeling happier. If I'm feeling angry at someone, I do something thoughtful for her and my feelings toward her soften. This strategy is uncannily effective.
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I spend a lot of time saying to myself, Well, is that really what I like to do? Is that really something that makes me happy? and letting go of the things that don't make me happy.
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In 'Before and After,' I identify the sixteen strategies that we can use to make or break our habits. Some are quite familiar, such as 'Monitoring,' 'Scheduling,' and 'Convenience.' Some took me a lot of effort to identify, such as 'Thinking,' 'Identity,' and 'Clarity.'
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You really have to begin by figuring out what kind of person you are. The tip is to really take a look at yourself.
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Act the way that you want to feel.
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If I pretend to myself that I'm different from the way I truly am, I'm going to make choices that won't make me happy.
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Don’t let the perfect be the enemy of the good. Lower the bar. Actually spending ten minutes clearing off one shelf is better than fantasizing about spending a weekend cleaning out the basement.
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Nothing,' wrote Tolstoy, 'can make our life, or the lives of other people, more beautiful than perpetual kindness.
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When I find myself focusing overmuch on the anticipated future happiness of arriving at a certain goal, I remind myself to 'Enjoy now'. If I can enjoy the present, I don't need to count on the happiness that is (or isn't) waiting for me in the future.
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I'm a person who's fine saying 'No.' I like saying to myself, no gossiping, no nagging.
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The biggest waste of time is to do well something that we need not do at all.
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Don't let perfect be the enemy of good.
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I'm doing a lot of speaking and talking about habits, which is this subject that obsesses me. That's a lot of fun.
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Reading makes me want to write my own books, and just trying to understand what I see in the world around me makes me want to figure things out.
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The absence of feeling bad isn't enough to make you happy you must strive to find sources of feeling good
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We tend to overestimate what we can do in a short period, and underestimate what we can do over a long period.
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We are happy when we are growing.
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