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The father who raises a son to have a profession he once dreamed of, and the mother who uses her daughter as the adult companion her husband is not the parents who urge their children into accomplishments as status symbols-all these and many more are ways of subordinating a child's authentic self to a parent s needs.

Gloria Steinem

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Gloria Steinem
Age: 90
Born: 1934
Born: March 25
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