The only meaningful thing we can offer one another is love. Not advice, not questions about our choices, not suggestions for the future, just love.

I think when your heart hurts this much it means you opened it wide once- and that is something to be proud of.

Don't let yourself become so concerned with raising a good kid that you forget you already have one.

I think that sometimes quitting is exactly the right thing to do. Quitting something that's not working requires self-awareness and courage.

If you feel something calling you to dance or write or paint or sing, please refuse to worry about whether you're good enough . Just do it. Be generous. Offer a gift to the world no one else can offer : yourself.

I was what they call a 'highly functional addict.' ... sometimes people who need help look nothing like people who need help.

During my drinking decades, I lived like a pig. My room was a hazardous pile of stilettos, tube tops, wine bottles, ashtrays, and old magazines. I valued nothing. Everything that came into my life was disposable: clothes, opportunities, people. My bedroom looked as if my insides had spilled out onto the floor.

I still get very high and very low in life. Daily. But I've finally accepted the fact that sensitive is just how I was made, that I don't have to hide it and I don't have to fix it. I'm not broken.

A good day is a good day. A bad day is a good story.