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Sometimes if you let people do things to you, you're really doing it to them.

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Gillian Flynn
Age: 53
Born: 1971
Born: February 10
Author
Film Critic
Journalist
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Screenwriter
Television Critic
Writer
Kansas City
Missouri
Gillian Schieber Flynn
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I think mystery writers and thriller writers - whatever genre you want to call it - are taking on some of the biggest, most interesting kind of socioeconomic issues around in a really interesting, compelling way.
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It’s a very difficult era in which to be a person, just a real, actual person, instead of a collection of personality traits selected from an endless Automat of characters.
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Bang bang bang. I understand now why so many horror movies use that device-the mysterious knock on the door-because it has the weight of a nightmare. You don't know what's out there, yet you know you'll open it. You'll think what I think: No one bad ever knocks.
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I think there is something very relatable in the idea that you hit a certain age, later in your life, where you realize you have to pick up the rug and see what's underneath it and deal with stuff.
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There's a difference between really loving someone and loving the idea of her.
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It was surprising that you could spend hours in the middle of the night pretending things were OK, and know in thirty seconds of daylight that that simply wasn't so.
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To me, marriage is the ultimate mystery.
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People love talking, and I have never been a huge talker. I carry on an inner monologue, but the words often don't reach my lips.
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The worst feeling: when you just have to wait and prepare yourself for the lie.
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Most beautiful, good things were done by women people scorn.
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Nick is like a good stiff drink: He gives everything the correct perspective.
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I don't understand the point of being together if you're not the happiest.
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I waited patiently - years - for the pendulum to swing the other way, for men to start reading Jane Austen, learn how to knit, pretend to love cosmos, organize scrapbook parties, and make out with each other while we leer. And then we'd say, Yeah, he's a Cool Guy.
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My dad had limitations. That's what my good-hearted mom always told us. He had limitations, but he meant no harm. It was kind of her to say, but he did do harm.
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I often don't say things out loud, even when I should. I contain and compartmentalize to a disturbing degree: In my belly-basement are hundreds of bottles of rage, despair, fear, but you'd never guess from looking at me.
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I've always believed clear-eyed sobriety was for the harder hearted.
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I feel myself trying to be charming, and then I realize I’m obviously trying to be charming, and then I try to be even more charming to make up for the fake charm, and then I’ve basically turned into Liza Minnelli: I’m dancing in tights and sequins, begging you to love me. There’s a bowler and jazz hands and lots of teeth.
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People say children from broken homes have it hard, but the children of charmed marriages have their own particular challenges.
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Sometimes I think I won't ever feel safe until I can count my last days on one hand.
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I'd come to believe there was no food more depressing than Danish, a pastry that seemed stale upon arrival
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