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Nobody has the power to make you miserable . . . unless you choose to give them that power. Choose to enjoy every drop of today!

Gary Chapman

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Gary Chapman
Age: 86
Born: 1938
Born: January 10
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Radio Personality
Writer
Winston-Salem
North Carolina
Gary Demonte Chapman
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