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The object of love is not getting something you want but doing something for the well-being of the one you love.

Gary Chapman

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Gary Chapman
Age: 86
Born: 1938
Born: January 10
Author
Radio Personality
Writer
Winston-Salem
North Carolina
Gary Demonte Chapman
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Getting
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Romantic

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