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You can’t change the tale so that you turned left one day instead of right, or didn’t make the mistake that might have saved your life a day later. We don’t get those choices. The story is what got you here, and embracing its truth is what makes the outcome bearable.

Gail Caldwell

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Gail Caldwell
Age: 73
Born: 1951
Born: January 20
Critic
Journalist
Literary Critic
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