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If you suspect someone is draining you, generally you should not confront them, but be nice, relax them, and then see what they are doing.

Frederick Lenz

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Frederick Lenz
Age: 48 †
Born: 1950
Born: February 9
Died: 1998
Died: April 12
Author
Entrepreneur
San Diego
California
Generally
Nice
Someone
Draining
Confront
Suspect
Suspects
Relax

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