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The other day, the way people [do] who are approaching their 80th birthday, I was thinking about all the last business - funerals and where do you want to be buried - and I thought if anything were to be inscribed on my tombstone, I said let it be that.

Frederick Buechner

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Frederick Buechner
Age: 98
Born: 1926
Born: July 11
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