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Fathering is not something perfect men do, but something that perfects the man.

Frank Pittman

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Frank Pittman
Age: 77 †
Born: 1935
Born: January 1
Died: 2012
Died: November 24
Psychiatrist
Psychotherapist
the United States of America
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Fathering
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Men

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