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Fathering is the most masculine thing a man can do.

Frank Pittman

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Frank Pittman
Age: 77 †
Born: 1935
Born: January 1
Died: 2012
Died: November 24
Psychiatrist
Psychotherapist
the United States of America
Daddy
Father
Thing
Men
Fathering
Masculine

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