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The spiritual destiny of Hawaii has been shaped by a Calvinist theory of paternalism enacted by the descendants of the missionaries who had carried it there: a will to do good for unfortunates regardless of what the unfortunates thought about it.

Francine du Plessix Gray

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Francine du Plessix Gray
Age: 88 †
Born: 1930
Born: September 25
Died: 2019
Died: January 13
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