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I finally know the difference between pleasing and loving, obeying and respecting. It has taken me so many years to be okay with being different, and with being this alive, this intense.

Eve Ensler

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Eve Ensler
Age: 71
Born: 1953
Born: May 25
Actor
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New York City
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Success itself doesn't give you happiness. It's what you do with your success that gives you happiness.
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Give voice to what you know to be true, and do not be afraid of being disliked or exiled. I think that's the hard work of standing up for what you see.
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