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People create the reality they need in order to discover themselves

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Ernest Becker
Age: 49 †
Born: 1924
Born: September 27
Died: 1974
Died: March 6
Anthropologist
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Existential Therapist
Psychologist
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Springfield
Massachusetts
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Modern man is drinking and drugging himself out of awareness, or he spends his time shopping, which is the same thing.
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In seeking to avoid evil, humanity is responsible for bringing more evil into the world than organisms could ever do merely by exercising their digestive tracts. It is our ingenuity, rather than our animal nature, that has given our fellow creatures such a bitter earthly fate.
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It is fateful and ironic how the lie we need in order to live dooms us to a life that is never really ours.
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Love is the problem of an animal who must find life, create a dialogue with nature in order to experience his own being.
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What man really fears is not so much extinction, but extinction with insignificance.
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Each society is a hero system which promises victory over evil and death.
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When we understand that man is the only animal who must create meaning, who must open a wedge into neutral nature, we already understand the essence of love. Love is the problem of an animal who must find life, create a dialogue with nature in order to experience his own being.
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We might say that both the artist and theneurotic bite off more than they can chew, but the artist spews it back out again and chews it over in an objectified way, as an ex­ternal, active, work project.
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Men use one another to assure their personal victory over death.
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If everyone lives roughly the same lies about the same thing, there is no one to call them liars. They jointly establish their own sanity and themselves normal.
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Horror alone brings peace of mind.
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Ecological devastation is the excrement, so to speak, of man's power worship.
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Man is literally split in two: he has an awareness of his own splendid uniqueness in that he sticks out of nature with a towering majesty, and yet he goes back into the ground a few feet in order blindly and dumbly to rot and disappear forever.
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Man's natural and inevitable urge to deny mortality and achieve a heroic self-image are the root causes of human evil.
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We are gods with anuses.
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All power is in essence power to deny mortality.
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the best existential analysis of the human condition leads directly into the problems of God and faith
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Better guilt than the terrible burden of freedom and responsibility.
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When you confuse personal love and cosmic heroism you are bound to fail in both spheres. The impossibility of the heroism undermines the love, even if it is real. This double failure is what produces the sense of utter despair that we see in modern man... Love, then, is seen a religious problem
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