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Love is often nothing but a favorable exchange between two people who get the most of what they can expect, considering their value on the personality market.

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Erich Fromm
Age: 79 †
Born: 1900
Born: March 23
Died: 1980
Died: March 18
Philosopher
Psychoanalyst
Psychologist
Sociologist
University Teacher
Writer
Frankfurt/Main
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Nothing
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Love
Market
Life
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People
Personality
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