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I actually think leaving your children alone to fantasize, to write, to make projects on their own is good for them. Breathing down their necks is a form of control. Children should have their own space.

Erica Jong

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Erica Jong
Age: 82
Born: 1942
Born: March 26
Author
Feminist
Novelist
Poet
Writer
New York City
New York
Erica Mann Jong
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Fantasize
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They keep saying the right person will come along. I think mine got hit by a truck.
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I convinced myself that sadness and compromise were the ways of the world.
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Few women see power as an end in itself. The point of power is the freedom to cultivate roses.
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