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Unconsciousness of self is not so much unselfishness as it is the mental ability to extinguish all thought of one's self - exactly as one turns out the light.

Emily Post

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Emily Post
Age: 87 †
Born: 1872
Born: October 27
Died: 1960
Died: September 25
Author
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Baltimore
Maryland
Emily Price
Emily Price Post
Emily Bruce Price
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Extinguish
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Unselfishness
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Unconsciousness
Mental
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Ability
Turns
Light

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