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No matter what the circumstances. I am more like most men in this regard. No second chances. It's not so much about morality, but about my inability to forgive. I'm a champion grudge holder, and I don't think I could change this about myself even if I wanted to.

Emily Giffin

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Emily Giffin
Age: 52
Born: 1972
Born: March 20
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