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For success in training children the first condition is to become as a child oneself, but this means no assumed childishness, no condescending baby-talk that the child immediately sees through and deeply abhors. What it does mean is to be as entirely and simply taken up with the child as the child himself is absorbed by his life.

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Ellen Key
Age: 76 †
Born: 1849
Born: December 11
Died: 1926
Died: April 26
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Ellen Karolina Sofia Key
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the higher the development of women, the more they suffer from the 'patriotic' mandate to bear many children to replace the nation's losses. For they know that, from the point of view of their personal development as well as that of the race, fewer but better children are to be preferred.
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A great poet has seldom sung of lawfully wedded happiness, but of free and secret love and in this respect, too the time is coming when there will no longer be one standard of morality for poetry and another for life. To anyone tender of conscience, the ties formed by a free connection are stronger than the legal ones.
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At every step the child should be allowed to meet the real experience of life the thorns should never be plucked from his roses.
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The genius of happiness is still so rare. To possess it means to approach life with the humility of a beggar, but to treat it with the proud generosity of a prince to bring to its totality the deep understanding of a great poet and to each of its moments the abandonment and ingenuousness of a child.
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The educator must above all understand how to wait to reckon all effects in the light of the future, not of the present.
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All philanthropy — no age has seen more of it than our own — is only a savoury fumigation burning at the mouth of a sewer.
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Corporal punishment is as humiliating for him who gives it as for him who receives it it is ineffective besides. Neither shame nor physical pain have any other effect than a hardening one.
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