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The central struggle of parenthood is to let our hopes for our children outweigh our fears.

Ellen Goodman

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Ellen Goodman
Age: 83
Born: 1941
Born: April 11
Journalist
Newton
Massachusetts
Fears
Struggle
Inspirational
Children
Outweigh
Adoption
Parenthood
Hopes
Central

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